Hayll - I love lingerie, I feel so empowered and body confident. They make me feel like there’s nothing I can’t do.
Don’t do anything you don’t feel comfortable with. Your safety comes first and if it doesn’t feel right, don’t do it!
I’ve turned down “collabs” and work in the past for not feeling comfortable.
It’s important to trust who you are working with to get the best images.
TFP is a great way to get a portfolio and a good representation within the field to progress.
I live by 2 rules.
1- Don’t do harm to yourself.
2- Don’t do harm to anyone else.
As long as I’m living by those rules then I’m happy that I’m doing ok in life. I’ve spent so much of my life, NOT doing things, in fear of upsetting other people. Some people may not like what decisions and choices you make, but is it harming them; or is it just that their opinion might be a little different from yours? As long as you’re not causing any harm, then why not do what you want to! Life is too short! I’m not here for a long time, I’m here for a good time.
As Alan Watts once said, “We thought about life by analogy with a journey, like there was some destination we were trying to get to, but we missed the point the whole way along. It was a musical thing and you were supposed to sing or to dance while the music was being played”
I intend to sing and dance my way through my life. And you should too!
If you’re thinking of trying modelling, then at least try it before giving up. So many women of all ages, and all sizes, are beautiful, you just need to see it for yourself. After all, in life, we only ever regret the chances that we didn’t take. So take the chance!!